URUKUNDO RUREBA UBUTUNZI

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Abakobwa bamwe bavuga ko abasore batagishaka kurongora. Abasore nabo bakavuga ko abakobwa batagira urukundo, ahobwo bakunda ibintu. Ibyo rero ngo bituma abasore batarashobora kwibikaho utuntu nibura tubiri (inzu, imodoka) bagenza make. 

IBYIZA BYO KUMENYANA NEZA

N.Theophila Photo by Gaspard

Burya ni byiza kumenyana neza cyane cyane ku bashakanye. Impamvu ni uko mu buzima bwabashakanye, kumenya bihagije umuntu bigira uruhare runini mu bibazo by’ubuzima bwabo, byaba ibibazo by’iterambere, iby’uburwayi, n’ibindi.

Iyo umaze kumenya ibyerekeye uwo mwashakanye ugomba no kugira ubushobozi bwo gutuma mufatanya gukemura ibibazo by’ubuzima musangiye, mugihe mufata icyemezo cyo kugira icyo mukora cyangwa kutagikora, bigomba gushingira  kukuba muziranye. Nibyiza ko mu mibereho ya buri munsi, umuntu wese mu bashakanye atizirikana ubwe gusa ahubwo azirikana na mugenzi we.  Abanyafilipi 2.5.

NI BYIZA KUMENYA IBYO UWO UKUNDA AKUNDA

Mu bintu bituma abashakanye cyangwa abakundana boharana ibyishimo. Kugira urugo rwiza, kugira ubucuti buramba bisaba kumenya neza uwo mwashakanye cyangwa uwo mukundana. Kmenya ibyo akunda, ibyo yanga, ukamenya uko umutwara. Reka tugaruke kuri bya bimenyetso by’imibare, kugirango turusheho kumva neza, uko kumenya ibyo akunda ugakoresha ubwenge, byafasha kubaka urugo rwiza cyangwa gukomeza ubucuti.

IMPANO Z'URUKUNDO

Mu gihe naganiraga n'abantu kubirebana n'impano zitangwa ku munsi wa Saint Valentin, abenshi bambwiye ko abatanga cyane ari ab'igitsina gabo. Banongeyeho ko no muyindi minsi ari ab'igitsina gabo batanga impano cyane. Ese koko nibyo? Niba aribyo ni ukubera iki? Abakunzi ba blog inamanziza.blogspot.com barashimishwa no kumenya icyo wowe ubivugaho.
Mbaye ngushimiye.

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KUGARURA AMAHORO NYUMA YO GUSHWANA

Mbese hari igihe uwo mwashakanye cyangwa uwo mukunda mujya mushwana? Bibaho si ishyano wagushije.

Rimwe na rimwe haba ho ubwo abantu batumvikanye ku kintu runaka, bigatera umwuka mubi. Niyo mpamvu ari byiza kumenya uburyo bwo kugarura umwuka mwiza mu gihe mugize icyo mutumvikanaho.

Buri wese akwiye kugira ubushake bwo amakimbirane. Yaba abaye, buri wese akagira  ubushake bwo kugarura umwuka mwiza n’amahoro. Urandiko rwa Yakobo ruvuga ko Ushaka guha undi cyangwa abandi amahoro niwe ugira amahoro

IBARA RIVUGA URUKUNDO RWAMENA AMARASO

Umwe mu bakunda kwizihiza umunsi wa 14 Gashyantare nk'umunsi w'abakundana, namubajije impamvu yari yambaye umwenda utukura yawujyanishije n'uwumukara, ansobanurira ko umutuku usobanura urukundo rukomeye. Yagize ati" Umutuku werekana urukundo rukomeye. Mba neraka umukunzi ko mukunda kuburyo nanamena amaraso yanjye kubwe."

ICYATUMA MVA MU RUKUNDO

Umusore umwe yambanjije ati: Ko umukunzi wanjye aha agaciro gakomeye umunsi w'abakundana kandi jye nkaba mba numva ari umunsi nk'iyindi ubwo nta ngorane zizavuka mu rukundo rwacu?
Nagirango mumfashe tumugire inama.

UKUNDWA URUKOMEZA INDAHIRO

Imana igufitiye urukundo rukomeza indahiro. Kuva kera Imana yerekanye ko ikunda urukundo rukumeza indahioro. Uhereye igihe Adamu amara gukora icyaha, Imana yamusezeranije ko umwana w'umugore azamena umutwe w'inzoka, ibyo yarabisohoje ubwo Yesu yigiraga umuntu akaza kubana n'abantu kandi agapfira k'umusaraba, ariho gucungurwa kwabonekeye.

KWIFATA BITUMA URUKUNDO RURAMBA

Mu myaka maze ku isi itari mike cyane, nasanze mu bintu bishobora gutuma urukundo ruramba rukaba rushobora kugera ku ntego, harimo no kwirinda gusambana. 

Urukundo si ugusambana

Abahungu bamwe bashuka abakobwa bababeshya ko babakunda, bakanabashora mu busambanyi, bamara kubarunguruka bagahita batangira gushakisha ibintu bituma ubucuti buhagarara.